"We are Conduits of Light here to Inspire Transformation" - Jemma
Lets face it. We are all Game changers.
At some point we have realized that there is more to this journey we call life than meets the eye.
Once we step onto our path it, it can often be very challenging and we wonder why the hell we signed up in the first place!!
But we have come for a reason. And we are all in this together.
Isn't that awesome?!
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I've come to deeply understand that drama is a state of being that we choose.
I should know, I used to be epic at it. Past tense.
Thing is, I didn't even really realise back then that I was the creator of the constant play of a soap opera in my life. I certainly didn't 'want' a consistent stream of dramatic events to follow me, but they seemed to anyways for quite some years.
What I realised, is that being quite the stroryteller ('noooo really??' I hear you muse with your tongue in your cheek.. ) I was perpetuating the drama in my life by simply talking about it too much. Even though the stories may have been entertaining and sometimes even comical, the Universe doesn't know that we are trying to be comedians of our experiences.
The Universe hears only what we are foucusing our words and attention on. It might feel good when we talk about our dramas and someone else listens. It may even feel like a problem shared is a problem halved, and sure we need to workshop things. But really, telling the story and over again or consistently focusing on the details of a situation only serves to pull more and more of replica situations into our experience.
And then we usually go on to project our drama onto someone else, as being theirs to own. When in fact the irony is nothing is anyone's to own. It's all only a collection of events and experiences that have created emotion, that we have chosen to take on.
Why would we do that? Because we know deep in our being that we can transform anything, as powerful masters that we are, but instead we take them on as our own and we get stuck. Then we throw it onto everyone else wanting them to transform it for us when the only way out is not to go around, but to go through. Which means learning to transform it for ourselves.
Sound confusing or make total sense?
So how do we transform things without getting stuck in story? Well, the easiest way, which ironically feels way TOO Easy for most people, is we simply make a choice to let it go. No analysing, no going over and over, no confronting and needing to 'proclaim your truth' especially when it's been told over and over again. Just being clear about where you are at within yourself, stating it plainly and deciding it's done. And then moving on. Repeat. Moving on.
Personally these days I find this relatively easy to do. And it can be super annoying to people who want or feel like they need to process the bojangles out of everything. They'll say you're bypassing, or not owning your part or ignoring, when really they just want you to stay invested in their side of the drama and do some of their work for them. Why? Cause it feels really really good on some weird subconscious level to be perpetuating drama and actually is kind of an addiction. We say we don't want or need to be addicted to it but truth is most of us are for at east some of the time.
So what do you do? Well as my Maestro Puma Fredy Quispe Singona says you have 'two choices'. When someone is projecting something, anything, onto you, you can either ignore it, knowing it's theirs and refusing to engage. Or you can help them to transform it by letting them rant, rave, express repeatedly how they feel, blame you, give their opinions of you and allow them, in fact encourage them to keep going until they run out of steam.
Remember. Nothing belongs to you, and it doesn't belong to them either, what they are projecting is ONLY a collection of unresolved experiences and emotions that you are now the catalyst for triggering. That understanding helps you to stay in a compassionate space when they are forcing you into the 'I need to call you on your behaviour' corner.
I tend to do the later. At some point though I'll naturally reach the end of my tether and say enough is enough.
What I have come to realise though is that the power of my light is my gift. And if I stay in my knowing and stay in my essence, no matter what is coming my way, I can transform anything internally and externally with my light, into light. Might not always work out roses with the other person but their reaction is not for you to worry about. All you need to worry about is how YOU feel. Period.
At the end of the day it really is as plain and as simple as just choosing to let go. But that really does take discipline and willingness to truly let go of the need to confront, dissect, over share, and over analyse.
It means choosing to sit with and FEEL in your body anything that is there. Anxiety, disappointment, sadness, victimisation, exhaustion, despair. Totally feel any reactivity of any kind. Only feel. Not with the mind but with the awareness of the heart. When the story comes up Thankyou mind but no Thankyou. I am just feeling.
Soon the story, and in turn the minds need to justify, will ease off and you will be able to accept what is there and make a choice to let it go. As it repeats, repeat the process until there is no charge left and only a sense of inner harmony, acceptance peace and appreciation for the lesson and the opportunity to practice a deeper level of unconditional love and happiness, remains.
For me it really is that simple. Not always easy. But simple.
So I guess the question is how much do you reeeeallly want a drama free life?
The choice is ours. Isn't that awesome?
And the cool thing is we get to make it what ever we want.
Know what I'm choosing... 😎
Sacred World Traveller, Cacao Priestess, Medicine Woman and Founder/Creator of the Inspirational Raw Vegan food business Naked Treaties - Jemma has a rich and colourful history that has helped forge a light yet insightful wisdom of her life's experiences. She hopes to inspire others on their journey as she shares the triumphs and tribulations of her own. Alway's bringing it back to a place of empowerment and self realisation.